We’ve all regretted an overshare, and it’s a balancing act to give just the right amount to keep ’em wanting more. As we transition back to more in person than virtual meetings, one hopes, this classic video from a favorite motivational speaker, Kindra Hall, seems more evergreen than ever.
Hall’s expert tips serve as a guide as we re-enter the land of the living. Let’s dig into the key takeaways from the video linked below.
- Tell SOME of your story
If your personal story is worth sharing at work, you can be 100% selective about how much or how little detail you include. Baring your soul and innermost self can be saved for that dear old diary, your sixteen year old self and your BFF. You can get your point across and still keep your deepest darkest secrets and insecurities to yourself.
- Stories that last, will do just that
We’ve discussed the sticky-ness or memorable quality of stories before and Kindra’s reminder to us that the stories we divulge can last and last. Once shared, our stories endure for the long haul, so it’s wise to be sure that you’re comfortable with what you’re about to share no matter how long it lasts or where it may spread.
- Your story is needed
Your story is a gift. Yes, a gift. Some people truly need to hear what you have to share about overcoming life’s challenges and difficulties. Choosing to share your story may be just a step to greatness that will help those you share it with achieve or realize part of their story.
BONUS! A major point, & one not to be overlooked, is the very first point she makes. There’s rarely a strict yes or no as to if and when you share your story. Be fearless, taking a little time to reflect on whether you share your story by asking yourself a few questions first.
Again, you have the power to decide when and where to share your gift.
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Elya Simukka 
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